Wednesday, December 8, 2010

When You Lose Sight of Who You Are

I will always stay close to my martial arts roots, no matter what style I know or will learn. The one important quality that I will always hold onto is being humble and not become someone who is condescending to others. No matter where you go, you will always find individuals whose belief in their own self-importance becomes a liability to themselves. Don't know if you recall the movie "THE LAST DRAGON?" The key prognosticator to the main character is a self centered martial artist named "Show Enuf." His skills were  superb. Unfortunately his own self-importance (arrogance) becomes his downfall. Yes, you have instant followers when you do or say things. People are awe struck and will follow you to the ends of the earth. Unfortunately there are too many martial instructors out there who are more show than substance. Instructors who talk the talk but cannot walk the walk. Instructors who do not know the word "humble" and see their own self-importance (arrogance) as the only substance of their teachings. The student or peers own development is overshadowed if the instructor does not receive what is felt as proper recognition. Recognition in the form of placing oneself on a pedestal vs. speaking on the same level. Self-respect and recognition of the teacher will grow in an environment of humbleness rather than arrogance and self-importance.Yes, arrogance can kill.